Saturday, February 7, 2015

Single, Saved, and Flirting!?

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You wink and flip your hair at a cute guy that has your full attention! You think what you are doing is harmless or fun but in reality it is not! I know some may be thinking that I am being too conservative but news flash if you are saved and flirting is a big deal! Growing up as a young girl I seen and read countless magazines and television shows showing girls are to get their man by flirting. The writers of these media outlets made it seem that it was harmless or even cool to be a flirt. But has a got older a learned flirting is the wrong way to go. 

First of all when it comes to flirting you are playing games with someone’s emotions. Sometimes people even do it for sport without any intention of courting the person or even being their friend. This is wrong because you are misleading someone by pretending to like them in a romantic way. This guy (or if any guys are reading this post, this girl) may think you like them.  If you do not like this person you need to stop before it leads to heart break and hurt feelings. If you do not want to be used, why do it to someone else?! 

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Flirting like I previous stated is game and in this game a person is pretending to be something they are not. It is wrong to promote a false image. That person you flirt with is being deceived and possible loving a false image. And if you continue to keep playing games, you will soon discover that in all games there are winners and there are losers. In some cases you may end up being the one to lose. By promoting a false image in the end you may attract fake people
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When you flirt you are not thinking about that person or God because you  only thinking about yourself and what you want. In all reality you are using that person to make your own self feel important, attractive, or needed. Some people even use the person they flirt with to get them to do things for them. A person that is a flirt is using their looks or words to persuade people.
Let’s see what God has to say about it.

Proverbs 31:30 King James Version (KJV)
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
A person whether female or male that is using their looks or words to get things from people is being vain and deceitful. Being a flirt will only get attention from other insecure people and it is only temporary. Eventually that man or woman would get bored and find someone else to flirt with. But being a virtuous person will get you everlasting honor from God and from people.
In the end it pays more to be righteous and what God called you to be than a flirt. Just be yourself  because you need to pretend and let God send you the right person!

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Ps. This is my personal opinion about flirting and some may think you can flirt and be saved but I really do not want to play games because I do not know where it may lead up to!


Lanae Bond


  1. I totally agree with what you say! I prefer to get to know someone in an honest way if I mean to pursue a relationship, and it's wrong to play with people's feelings, although a lot of people do.

    1. It seems very common for people to play games when it comes to relationships these days! Thanks for stopping by!


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